Tuesday, February 05, 2008

From Whence Cometh Joy?

Our wonderful granddaughter, not quite two months old, has been remaking our world. It is not just her indisputable beauty, her disarming charm, or her obvious brilliance. It is something more, something deeper and even a bit mysterious.

In the past few days Ashley has begun to smile and even to seemingly laugh inwardly in response to external stimuli. It is now too frequent and predictable to allow you cynics to dismiss it as gas. This beautiful little girl is beginning to know joy.

But why? I'll admit my three-finger helicopter landing on her stomach is pretty entertaining. My ability to twist my face into something resembling a mop would obviously result in gales of laughter among those older and more sophisticated. But how does Ashley know this is funny stuff?

It may seem like an insignificant question, but I think it is something well worth pondering. I cannot account for it except to say it seems clear that laughter and joy are inbred and not learned. To have joy, to laugh, to smile--these are inherently a part of what it means to be a human being.

I have had the privilege of traveling rather widely throughout the world. I can distinctly remember playing with a group of children in an African village. We shared no common language. We came from entirely different worlds. But within minutes we were all laughing and joking together as we played little games that American children would readily know. Laughter knows no geography, culture, or language. It comes from within.

There are many things in our world that conspire to snuff out joy and to mute laughter. To do so is a crime against humanity. Ashley has reminded me that a smile is far more than a pleasingly upturned lip. It is a declaration of life itself.

3 comments:

  1. She MUST be disarming! You didn't utter one political word on SUPER Tuesday! Seriously, there is nothing more wonderful and more leveling than a sweet baby. Sort of puts the other stuff in perspective....

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  2. Yes, I was aware that it was a bit unusual for me to talk about Ashley instead of politics on that day. And it's not that my mind wasn't swimming with all kinds of political commentary, most of which got dumped on family and friends.

    But I decided that Ashley's smile was just the political statement that Super Tuesday needed.

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  3. After listening to the news this morning, reading your post about Ashley's smile was a welcome change of mood. We saw the movie "Juno" recently with Dave & Voni Simons and in a strange way it had a similar affect on my mood. New life always seems to bring new hope.

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